What is my responsibility if I got a flat tire while using a friend's car?
Question Details: While using a friend's car I got a flat tire on the day that I was returning it. When I meet up with the friend to return it, I offered $200 for the tire but my offer was denied. I am now receiving threatening letters and texts stating they will be taking me to small claims for the mounting of the tire and the rim. I have received messages starting that it was a total of $500 and another stating $275. My girlfriend is also receiving letters and messages regarding this matter, which has become harassing. The moral here is that it's not necessarily about the tire, it's about the simple fact I no longer want to have a relationship with this person.
You are only liable to pay if you were at fault in causing the flat tire: e.g. drove over obvious debris; ran into a curb and popped it; drove too fast on bad terrain or a damaged/rough road; etc. You are NOT responsible for the cost of a tire if you had nothing to do with the flat: simply driving their car does not make you liable for any repairs, etc. (unless you had agreed, before and as a condition of, borrowing it to pay all such costs). Therefore, there is no particular reason, unless you believe you were at fault, to believe that you'd have to pay; even if your "friend" were to sue you (e.g. in small claims court), you'd only have to pay if he can convince the court you were in fact at fault.